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Enabling Makes Something Toxic Possible codependencycodependentcomplex ptsdenablingptsd Jan 19, 2022

Last lesson I told you about how when a fawn saves the day, she calls the dementors meaning that when you rescue or enable someone, it comes with the price of you getting in trouble from the person you’re helping and/or it will end up being a complete disaster.  The story was a friend...

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Fawning Always Leads to Victimhood codependencycodependentcomplex ptsddrama triangleenablingptsd Jan 12, 2022

I remember the therapy session in which I was flummoxed at how could me going above and beyond to help a close friend recover from surgery go so terribly, terribly wrong.  I cleared my schedule (my joke was “I’ll check with my boss to see if I can take a week off” -...

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